How often should I stay in touch?
Remember that grief doesn't go away in a few short weeks. Even one year may not be long enough to ...
How can I help my grieving friend?
One of the best ways you can help your friend is to allow them to feel what they want to ...
What happens at the cemetery?
The casket is normally placed beside the grave, prior to when all the mourners gather at the gravesite. People then ...
Who travels with the funeral procession?
When the funeral ceremony and the burial are both held within the local area, it is appropriate for friends and ...
What do I do when I arrive at the service?
When you arrive, quietly take a seat if the service is being held in a church or chapel. The first ...
Do I approach the casket? If so, what do I do?
The decision of whether or not to approach the casket is a very individual one. It is not required or ...
Can children go to a funeral?
Yes, but toddlers and babies can be disruptive, especially if it is a long service. Studies have found that children ...
Do I have to wear black?
No, wearing colorful clothing is no longer inappropriate for relatives and friends. Most people choose formal clothing. In general, jeans, ...
Do I need to be invited to a funeral or can anyone go?
Anyone can go. A funeral service is open to anyone unless the family requests that it be held privately.
Do I send flowers or gifts?
It is completely up to you and depends on the closeness of your relationship with the family or the deceased. ...
